Re: Going Crazy Trying to figure out things
You have to be willing to give up what you have. I didn't get divorced with the intention of re-starting a relationship with my ex. I was done. It just has worked out that way.
What we had together is gone. It'll never come back. It'll never be the same. What I have with her now is different. Good, but different - and it certainly has it's challenges and things that trigger sadness (her, much more-so than me, actually) remembering that it's not the same too. But, it's part of a different burden we go through together.