Re: Need Advise Went on long Enough
Just a thought, but have you considered that she's saving you? As in, "I don't want to share" and "just in case"?
Personal opinion here, but I wouldn't try to date my ex. I wouldn't want to have to go through the big D all over again. Especially if we divorced over cheating.
Perhaps try dating other people again, but this time don't discuss it with her, and don't let her tell you what to do. Just be polite, and refrain from initiating contact outside of child related issues. She's not your wife. Not anymore.
Do you hear the people sing / Lost in the valley of the night?
It is the music of a people / Who are climbing to the light.
For the wretched of the earth / There is a flame that never dies.
Even the darkest night will end / And the sun will rise...