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post #16 of 17 (permalink) Old 01-03-2017, 09:10 AM
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Re: 2 Weeks into Reconciliation

Your husband was not living with you. HE left YOU. His body was in a different place. His mind was in a different place. His penis was in a different place---> Mysteriously and miraculously and accidentally found another folded nest.

Most couples get in arguments, some very heated ones. Very few move out on each other. When they do so voluntarily most have the common sense and common dignity not to do anything that would erase "everything".

His hard pencil erased all the good history written by both of your hearts.

He was mentally conflicted prior to move-out. He knew OW was hot on his tail bone. He must have encouraged this "prior" to infidelity. He had no doubts that this would happen when he moved out. Moved out and got himself an apartment? He had planned all of this.

What happened? OW is likely a witch, has many screws loose {physically, mentally}. She has many [died silk, no typo] threads loose hanging from her sheer negligee. The negligee covered a nice body but that screw loose crazy attitude mentioned earlier, spun his top head away. Your husband's lower head got snookered. It doomed him and damned him to dwell......... in Divorce Alley.

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.
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post #17 of 17 (permalink) Old 02-08-2017, 06:10 AM
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Re: 2 Weeks into Reconciliation

Originally Posted by turnera View Post
Continue to stay separated and attend counseling with him. Figure out what each of you really wants. Sounds to me like he wasn't that into being married and wanted more sex with more women.

Number 1 rule: watch his ACTIONS, not his words. It's easy to sweet talk women. What's hard is showing you in actions that he loves you enough to put you ahead of EVERYTHING, even himself. So far, it doesn't sound like he's doing that.
THIS and THIs, you are going back into the marriage too quickly. Your WH has blown up the old marriage. You have to work through the pain, the resentment, the anger and have a clear head to rebuild a new marriage.

You may wake up one morning and decide you want to move on and he is not really worth the effort of reconciling. What he has done is pretty immature and hurtful, what makes you think he wont do the same again, considering you have let him back into your life so easily?
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