Re: 2 Weeks into Reconciliation
Forgive... this will allow you to put aside the pain and resentment for the deep healing you need, the past something behind you for the purpose of experience.
There are too many things here that are not mindful for you alone to overcome... you need to put the energy into you.
I am not sure he has a sound foundation for understanding love for either of you...
ETA: He has a ton of heavy lifting to do after reading your other threads... we often see want we to see with the different levels of love, but ultimatums are what they should be, and he challenged yours... how will you hold his feet to the fire the next time he places you secondary in his life?
Moving on shows him where you are headed, and the confidence will show if he gathers the strength to circle round to meet you there in your future destination then reconsideration is worth taking the time to consider.
Last edited by Emerging Buddhist; 01-02-2017 at 04:08 PM.
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