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post #2 of 10 (permalink) Old 01-21-2017, 05:33 PM
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Find what you're up against. Sounds like she found another man. Did you neglect her? Having sex often? A woman just doesn't leave for no good reason.
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I've been married only a year and 4 months. My wife and I have each have young children of our own and most of the time, these three children are at our house. Some things have happened, going back a ways, that are now causing my wife to want a divorce. She said she still loves me but that we are "incompatible." I love her more than words can say, and have been trying to have serious conversations with her about reconciliation, to no avail. Same goes for going to see a marriage counselor; she is refusing to do so. In fact, she is avoiding me & aims to move out of the house. I believe in my heart our marriage can be saved, but it takes both of us to make that happen. Can anyone offer any tips on reconciliation?
Did you do something or did something "happen" to you?
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Re: I love my wife and want her back.

WHy did she so recently marry you if she thinks you are incompatible?
What happened to change things?

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Joe Friday only wanted the facts.

It is Saturday in our Cosmos. But Joe's demands stay in effect until 12-pm tonight.

FYI: We accept Sloppy Joes, too. We have plenty of napkins and plenty of crying towels.

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I love my wife and want her back.

Did you "happen " to cheat on her? Or physically or emotionally abuse her?

I suspect yes since you purposefully did not say what happened.
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I've been married only a year and 4 months. My wife and I have each have young children of our own and most of the time, these three children are at our house. Some things have happened, going back a ways, that are now causing my wife to want a divorce. She said she still loves me but that we are "incompatible." I love her more than words can say, and have been trying to have serious conversations with her about reconciliation, to no avail. Same goes for going to see a marriage counselor; she is refusing to do so. In fact, she is avoiding me & aims to move out of the house. I believe in my heart our marriage can be saved, but it takes both of us to make that happen. Can anyone offer any tips on reconciliation?
What kinds of things?

Virginia: "Why can't you kids leave well enough alone? Everything was fine until you started digging around."

Burt: "You sound like a Scooby Doo villain."
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If you cannot be open with a group of strangers in an anonymous forum, then I can only guess as to why your wife wants out. We cannot help you if you do not share.
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If you cannot be open with a group of strangers in an anonymous forum, then I can only guess as to why your wife wants out. We cannot help you if you do not share.


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Re: I love my wife and want her back.

Since the OP deleted his initial post and hasn't been back this thread is now closed.

He can PM A mod to have it reopened.

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