Re: Reconciliation / Texting / Work
It does not sound like the fundamentals are strong for reconciliation, OP.
I am sure it is hard to accept the end of a long relationship, and move on to an eventual new one. But I would highly recommend you do so.
One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman's emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax. -- David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man