Re: How to handle this??
I was the one that postponed the divorce 3 times before finally going through with it. She would tell me she wanted to come home and work it out so I would postpone the court date. I filed the divorce, I postponed it, and I went through with it in Oct. 2013. But she started the first day after she left talking about how she only loves me and wanted to work it out. She's kept that up the ENTIRE time, but has never left the OM. She is still with him, living in his house, as I type this. But, she's burning my email up, saying she's different now, knows so much more, and knows where her heart is and who she's always loved. Says she made the worst mistake anyone could make and swears she'll spend the rest of her life proving it to me if I let her come back. I have never told her she couldn't come back, but have said she had to do what we needed. She just knows about this other woman now and it's caused a flood of emails. My ex left in Nov. 2012 to live with OM. She has never admitted she wanted to be with him. She has always promised me she was coming home where she belonged, but like I said, she never has and is there as I type this. I suggested she end contact with him, find a place to rent for her and the kids, and show me she is worthy of considering this again, but she says she doesn't have a place to go. She says she wants to tell OM and come straight here from his house.