Back Together..But Need Your Advice
Ok, so ex and I finalized divorce in October after 7 years. Our marriage was spent being angry, spiteful, hurtful etc. We have a 5 year old. In January, we began to talk. Every night for hours on the phone. We somehow have managed to find communication and actually have open, honest, funny thought provoking conversations and have closed a lot of old wounds by just being open and totally honest with each other. We live in two different states, so this will be a work in progress for a long time, if it goes that far. But we love to spend time together as a family, we love being around one another...you know, what the majority of people just want in relationship.
There is one thing that still lingers. He moved out two months before the divorce was finalized. He started a relationship with this pseudo friend/neighbor in our complex. And the reason I know this is because she posted selfies of her in my bed, pictures of meals she cooked for him with his name on it and a bunch of other things..but yes, I do know for a fact. I confronted him about it numerous times. He flat out denies anything happened. He admitted to so much more nonsense that happened during out marriage, so I don't know why he's not being truthful about this. I don't know what I'm looking for. I just want to know why it ended, why he was trying to be with me on Christmas, when he was already with her. And why does this bother me so much..he moved on that fast? She was a friend? What? I think about this everyday and I'm so burned/angry/jealous. I know we were apart, but why can't I get past this. It's stalling us moving forward together, and I don't want that to happen, because it's the best it's ever been. Any advice is appreciated.