You sound mostly reasonable.
She does not sound. No noise.
Well, I hear static on your part of her part. She is unhappy, for sure.
Going 12 years with a women and then marrying her...well, may have tipped her over. The edge.
I think she was going to pull the plug sometime in the last year or so.
Or maybe, when her "exams" are complete. What sort of exams? What will she matriculate to?
IMO she did not want to get married. She seems to be in some limbo state.
Maybe she met someone else in the last year, or so. She criticizes you for weak reasons. She is grabbing at straws, trying to come up with a reason to end the relationship.
Something, or someone has gotten under her skin.
One of her feet is nailed to the ground, the other is trying to run away. This ain't pretty.
When a women falls out of love, they rarely come back...to that loving place.
Please fill in the blanks, using my above questions...thanks.
I tried to communicate with her before she left home, she told me she needs a break from me. She rarely communicate with anyone even her parents. In 12 yrs she never told me she needs a break from me or anything, and we used to meet every day. The last two years she also was living at my mum's house during the weekends. She never looked as she didn't want to, as once told me she was planning to even stay there on Sunday and go to work from my mum's house on Monday.
She was very looking forward to get married and live together, even the wedding stuff etc, she was always looking forward and sometimes she even went to check stuff by herself, obviously I trusted her. She is a bit of a baby, was always like that. She never showed any signs that she will be doing something like that.
She is currently studying to graduate as an accountant, and a couple of months ago she was going to stop because they are very stressful exams, I kept motivating her to continue and not stop, as she only has three other exams left.
It was my first suspect that she has another man involved, I know when she lies by the look of her face, and she kept telling me that no one is involved in it.
I am suspecting of a couple of her friends, both of these friends are single, one of them left her boyfriend a couple of weeks before she left me. and the other friend, works with her and lately they were really close together, they went to the gym together in the morning before work, they spoke a lot together. Both of them are females.
I also checked with her parents if she ever said that she does not love me anymore, as she told me. And they looked very surprised, and told me that she never said those words about me. I am suspecting they know more and not informing me.
Don't know how you fall out of love with someone that literally saved your life.