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Old 01-20-2012, 03:39 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default What did they get rid of for you?

Part of our reconciliation path involved him getting rid of stuff that I couldn't stand to be around. Not only little things but big things too. The biggest was the expensive leather couch he got the blow job from the hooker on. He posted it on kijiji and got rid of it for cheap within 3 days. If he'd had anyone in his bed or car that would have had to go too.

Anyone else care to share what your wayward had to sacrifice as part of the process?
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Old 01-20-2012, 03:47 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Football - yep because OW was soooo knowledgeable about sports, while I was actually trying to learn and was genuinely interested in learning so that we will have more to talk about, he would just be looking forward to talk to her about it. Then after Dday he claimed the only thing they talked about was a football pool they had going on at work. He isn't happy about it but then again I wasn't thrilled about him sneaking around behind my back either.
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His job!
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