Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Indiana,near Chicago
Re: Finally...solid progress
Thank you Catherine and Spudster,Yes at times I was being a big jerk,controling sometimes,I always did encourage her to go out more with her friends never told her she couldnt,she has bad anxiety problems,things would be peaceful around the house and she would flip out over nothing,somtimes she looks for thing to worry about that puts me on edge she has done a few bone headed things in the marriage that drove me nuts and cost me a lot of money,being gone from our house 77 hours a week didnt help either,I know thats no excuse.Spudster,I no the crap I pulled in our marriage and I do own it,I've apologized over and over for it,promised her I'm not going let stress get to me and I will change,I'm glad she kicked me out that one hight,made me take a long look at myself,I have had five sessions of IC for my temper and three MC sessions with her,I have promises to do better but told her watch my actions,I am going to prove the changes I made are for real.The anger never solved anything,just made things worse,I see that and I'm never going back to that way again.All I can do is prove I changed and I'm sure she knows this now,yes it makes me half nuts to know that while I was woring on me and us she was seeing this guy on the side but I am going to keep pushing foward for us both,there is still a lot of work to do.I love her,need her and want her.She is the most imortant person in my life.
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Last edited by calvin; 02-07-2012 at 10:14 AM.