Re: She is moving back home....
I think.... waiting and watching for "the old her" is fruitless. I've been on an MLC site/forum for years....and one piece of advice is always to not expect to ever see that person again and if you are lucky you will see glimpses of who she used to be.
And I'm not saying it can't work. It certainly can, and I hope it does. I'm saying, after all you both have been thru, you will have different feelings, self-awareness, experiences, visions, goals, ideals even.... know what i mean? You will have to learn who THIS person is, the one who you once loved, you have to find out if she is someone who you will love now and into the future.
Hope for the best. Good luck!