ReconciliationThis forum is for those focused on reconciliation and success stories from people who have been through separation and reconciled successfully.
Hi Daisy I am so happy for you. Your husband sounds like a good man. I hope he understands that you have been living with this for a year and R is a process. I think he does. I can tell that he loves you very much
The very best to you and the family.
Thanks Catherine,
I appreciate the support you have given me.
Yes i think he understands but i think he would just like it all to go away now. Wouldnt we all!! Anyway, no rug sweeping going on here. Where i am choosy about the thoughts and feelings that i share with him at times i am not ready to stop talking about the A yet, esp as she is still a co worker, so i'm keeping him on his toes. And yes, despite what he has done, he is a good man.
Thanks Catherine,
I appreciate the support you have given me.
Yes i think he understands but i think he would just like it all to go away now. Wouldnt we all!! Anyway, no rug sweeping going on here. Where i am choosy about the thoughts and feelings that i share with him at times i am not ready to stop talking about the A yet, esp as she is still a co worker, so i'm keeping him on his toes. And yes, despite what he has done, he is a good man.
Best wishes, for a continuing strong recovery, your spouse is lucky to have someone like you
Congratulations and best wishes of course. I'm sure u can sustain this good progress and make you relationship actually stronger. I believe that your H is a good man. You are lucky with each other.
Hi everyone
A quick update.
All going well here. Had a bit of an emotional week as i have seen the ex ow 4 times in a week, having only seen her once in a whole year! Just crazy! Anyway made me feel a little vulnerable and emotional but H was great and we dealt with it together.
We had a weekend away alone camping the weekend before last and it was great. Just what we needed. Just relaxed, had some nice walks and lots of cuddles. Felt really good after it.
So all in all things are going well. I still get moments of insecurity and the flashbacks and mind movies are quite intense at times, but i just try and deal with them as best as i can. Sometimes alone and sometimes with H. He is very loving to me at the moment which really helps.
Hi Daisy! So glad to hear it is going well for you. I think I am on the road to R myself. We have been separated since March 13th, but he has been out of the house for only a month. We have been spending alot of time together and are going to start MC next week. He mentioned he wants to move back home!
All good here. Few ups and downs but overall very steady progress.
H has taken leave of absence from work so theres be NC with the OW for a month now so that's been really good for us. The time together has really helped us re connect and it's been great.
We joined a gym together yesterday, so another thing to add to our 'together' time.
He txt me in work yesterday and said
'I'm so sorry for the pain I have caused you, if I could turn the clocks back I would, but I can't do that, so I'm going to spend the rest of my life trying to make it up to you'
Hope you are all doing ok
DG
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Thanks for asking DG -- hanging in there. The end is in sight. Not the end I originally hoped for, but since we've been apart so long, and the problems run/ran so deep, I think it's the better ending after all.
Thanks for asking DG -- hanging in there. The end is in sight. Not the end I originally hoped for, but since we've been apart so long, and the problems run/ran so deep, I think it's the better ending after all.
Sorry to hear that angel but I'm sure you are moving in the right direction.
Stay positive and look forward to a happy future.
Just for fun, get yourself signed up for some free online dating. I did this when H was deep in his fog and I was really lonely one night. It was a boot. I didn't respond to anyone but some of the responses I received were very interesting!!
Take care!
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All good here. Few ups and downs but overall very steady progress.
H has taken leave of absence from work so theres be NC with the OW for a month now so that's been really good for us. The time together has really helped us re connect and it's been great.
We joined a gym together yesterday, so another thing to add to our 'together' time.
He txt me in work yesterday and said
'I'm so sorry for the pain I have caused you, if I could turn the clocks back I would, but I can't do that, so I'm going to spend the rest of my life trying to make it up to you'
omg, when i read what he text you, i started to cry! i know the path was hard and painful, but i'm so happy for you and where you both are now!
Hope you are all doing ok
DG
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