07-12-2012, 11:46 AM
Join Date: Aug 2011
Originally Posted by Lanilla
My h recently expressed to me that we may be able to work through our marriage difficulties, I'd get excited, but I'm not tryin to be disappointed. He said that his main reason for struggling with staying in the marriage is b/c he feels that I ALWAYS get my way & when I don't, there seems to be hell in the household... AND that he's heard me say many, many, many times b4 that I'd step back... but with no good results. I did let him know that I wanted to work through everything and take babysteps, b/c eventhough he says this is his issue, everyone knows it takes two to tango and constantly blaming me won't help. He wanted to know what baby steps we could take to work through this, any ideas?
Is he right in what he says. Or is there more too the situation? My H said I was moody and controlling, but he was cheating! Posted via Mobile Device