Originally Posted by alias
I have another thread going in the infidelity forum entitled "wife had affair, divorce or hope?", so if you want to read the whole story, go there.
Essentially, I am looking to hear from men who decided to stay with their wives after her affair and how it's going / went for you.
It's terrifying to think about, taking a chance on a new life with the woman who did this to me, but the alternative, divorce and ending what was once a good and true relationship is just as scary.
I specifically would like to hear first hand accounts from guys in my shoes but welcome all advice.
Yes alias there is hope and forgivness is very possible.
My wife told me to my face she did'nt love me,wanted the OM,said there was no hope.
She strung me along,sandbagged me,lied and...well I think you know how it goes.
My WW had a EA with ex hs bf,even met up with him four times in a K-Mart parking lot.
Yeah I know how it sounds but I do know physically nothing happened but does that matter? She still gave her love to him.
She has come around all the way,remorse,regret,transparency.....everything.
She knows how stupid it was.
Its going decent with us but its a long story and if you need to talk feel free to PM me or my wife,yes she's on Tams also and it has helped greatly.
There is hope and relationships CAN turn around and people do fall back in love.
Dont give up,I'm glad I did'nt.
Message me if you feel the need.
Take care friend...I'm sorry this is happening to you. Posted via Mobile Device