Is reconciliation possible w/ WAW & posOM
Ok, ad the advice of other her on the R thread i have been encouraged to post a new thread to track my progress towards/not a reconciliation.
My WAW left 9/18 we have been seperated ever since. She is 30 i am 34 we have to kids 3 & 1.5. Married 6 yrs. In the months i ve seen signs of a posOM but could not confirm it. Then in the last few weeks she confirmed she has been on a few dates and that there is someone tha she is dating. She has been extremely careless to say the most, spending $$$, not being w/ kids, drinking, and partying.
My family/close friends has been by my side since she left. However, this may be a bad thing i think, b/c they may now to much. Though i am trynig, to move on w/ my life, i cant help but think about the pos. that she may/may not come back.
I have to think that the odds are in my favor.
My question is how do people do it? How do married couples R after all this damage is done? What about the families that were affected?
I know that alot of people here R but i dont see how you get over all the hurt caused?
I will keep my journey posted here too as i go through it :/