Re: I'm back again
Grats to the both of you, if you can work thru everything I think your marriage could be 10x stronger than before cause you'll be more open to rebuilding than you ever were before.
Maybe instead of semi-fighting over who does what, work on it together, even trivial stuff. But even things like making dinner, cleaning the house, going for a walk, rebuild together goes a long ways.
Schedule a nice light evening/date, dinner and a movie? Remember that its not gonna happen over night, so don't get frustrated when its not happening as fast as either of you want. It took time to get yourselves lost, its gonna take time to find each other too.
Good luck!!! stay positive
Btw the way "Hi, Nan", welcome home.