I've been with my husband for 18 years, married 12 years and we have 4 children together. Eldest is 13 and youngest is 1 year. 2 months ago he joined a dating website under several different usernames. He actually met up with 1 woman her met on there and slept with her. I have the proof and when i confronted him he denied everything and i got the blame for snooping behind his back. We aggreed to make a go of things and he'd stop the sites. 2 weeks later i've just found he's back on the dating site under another new name. IF i confront him he'll know i've been spying on him again. I still love him dearly but i don't know how to go on. I still love him. This is such a mess.
My husband had the same problem before. I caught him more than 10 times. Now my husband completedly stopped.
It's kinda seek & hide games of the husbands.
I can share with you how I dealt with it. If you're interested. Posted via Mobile Device
I have the same problem. My husband has some profiles in several dating website. Not sure why he did that. When I ask him why he puts his profile in the dating website and put his status as single, he only said that he is looking for friendship only. I didn't believe it all. But I didn't say anything. I guess I just don't want to have argument about this.
I think you have every right to spy on him because he makes you not trusting him. I understand how you feel since I have been in your situation and sadly I still am. The only difference is my husband does not see or meet them or even sleeping with the. so I am safe for now.
Please go to my thread, http://talkaboutmarriage.com/dating-...e-married.html, to see the flip-side of what your husbands are doing. Trust me they aren't being so innocent when they have a dating site profile. They are looking for more than a friendship. I take that back. The married ones I've had contact with want to skip the friendship part and go straight to bed. Ladies please don't be fooled!
Scary. I have found history of my H being on dating websites. He says it was something he was on years ago and he got an email from it. Understandable because I get crap email like that too. However, it only shows up in the computer history if you click on the email link. I think he is interested in who is emailing him on that site from an old profile he had. That's how they hook you. What have you done?