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Old 09-21-2010, 06:35 AM   #1 (permalink)
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I've been with my husband for 18 years, married 12 years and we have 4 children together. Eldest is 13 and youngest is 1 year. 2 months ago he joined a dating website under several different usernames. He actually met up with 1 woman her met on there and slept with her. I have the proof and when i confronted him he denied everything and i got the blame for snooping behind his back. We aggreed to make a go of things and he'd stop the sites. 2 weeks later i've just found he's back on the dating site under another new name. IF i confront him he'll know i've been spying on him again. I still love him dearly but i don't know how to go on. I still love him. This is such a mess.
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Old 09-21-2010, 07:41 AM   #2 (permalink)
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My husband had the same problem before. I caught him more than 10 times. Now my husband completedly stopped.
It's kinda seek & hide games of the husbands.
I can share with you how I dealt with it. If you're interested.
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Old 09-22-2010, 10:18 AM   #3 (permalink)
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He isn't addicted to dating websites, he's looking to cheat (and already has). If he didn't lose your trust, you wouldn't have been checking up on him.

Your health is at risk because of STD's. You both should be checked and see a marriage counselor.
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You've got a much bigger problem than an addicted husband. You've got an unfaithful husband! At this point you have every right to snoop. Here's a link to a great web site: Just Found Out!
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Old 09-23-2010, 01:28 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I have the same problem. My husband has some profiles in several dating website. Not sure why he did that. When I ask him why he puts his profile in the dating website and put his status as single, he only said that he is looking for friendship only. I didn't believe it all. But I didn't say anything. I guess I just don't want to have argument about this.

I think you have every right to spy on him because he makes you not trusting him. I understand how you feel since I have been in your situation and sadly I still am. The only difference is my husband does not see or meet them or even sleeping with the. so I am safe for now.
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Old 09-23-2010, 06:46 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Please go to my thread, http://talkaboutmarriage.com/dating-...e-married.html, to see the flip-side of what your husbands are doing. Trust me they aren't being so innocent when they have a dating site profile. They are looking for more than a friendship. I take that back. The married ones I've had contact with want to skip the friendship part and go straight to bed. Ladies please don't be fooled!
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Scary. I have found history of my H being on dating websites. He says it was something he was on years ago and he got an email from it. Understandable because I get crap email like that too. However, it only shows up in the computer history if you click on the email link. I think he is interested in who is emailing him on that site from an old profile he had. That's how they hook you. What have you done?
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