01-06-2009, 02:19 PM
Join Date: Jan 2009
| | Re: Drug problem minimize but not stopped.
Originally Posted by nicole_walace
It is just so hard for me to understand his problem. I was never addicted to drugs but tried them as a teen and I don't have to have them. He can stop when he wants to, and be fine with that. By no means am I making excuses for him or I would not be on here trying to find help. He tells me he does them becuase I gripe constantly and because they are always in his face. ALL of his friends are DOPEHEADS!!!!! He wont cut ties with them because he has known most of them since birth. I don't think it is so much of an addiction but he thinks that there is no wrong in it. As a child his parents were alocholics and then when he was about 11 or so they started doing meth. That was all that was at their house when he was growing up. It's like he thought it was right since his parents always done it. He is comfortable around those kind of people now, and has anxiety about meeting new people. I have BEGGED him to move away from this little drug infested town. The sad part about it is there are MANY MANY good people in this town too he just does not interact with any of them. Thank you so much for your support and opinion. I am going to go to the website you sent and see what I can dig up. I am just hoping that this can be overcome and we can raise our daughter in a happy healthy environment.
Nicole i can identfy with you. I have two of my own children and one with him. He will stop but when i leaset expect he is back with his old tricks. The lieing and the spending of the money begins. I was curious as a teenager and experimented with drugs as well, but i never became addicted to any, not even cigarettes. I would love to save this relationship but if his addiction continues i can not continue in this relationship.