sadwoman

Please help me,
I discover that my husband was watching porno on internet and by the comments he was making I think he is gay because he keep saying bro,man, nice ****, when are you shooting?
When I asked him if he likes men he says is not true and that he only started doing that 2 weeks ago.
What do you think? Please help me. We have 3 kids and I dont know what to do

lisa3girls

I don't know...I mean, I guess it is unusual for men to do this...or maybe not. But once in a while I have watched lesbian porn and kind of liked it, even though I would never act on it. I consider myself straight.

trey69

Hard to say for sure. He could be then again maybe he is just curious. Is gay porn the only kind he has been watching? he has been watching?

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Lilyana

My H is a sex addict. His pornography choice seems to escalate. Like a drug user doesn't get a kick off pot anymore so they switch to meth or something.... so perhaps hes an addict looking for a fix and this is next in line? this is what therapists have told me in regards to my H's addiction.

My H started with softcore stuff.. and now hes into really Violent BDSM, but he looks up MEN interested in this stuff. Gay men, and Bi men.

For me its now a questoin of.. do i really know this man anymore? I am wondering if he is bi or gay. He wont answer me straight out. I no longer know the man I married. I feel your pain and questions sadwoman and I hope you can find the answers. I suggest bringing it up to him and see what he says.. mine acts like its no big deal.

Markie

speaking from a straight males point of view....

no i do not think that is normal unless he is bisexual or at least curious about it....

Unexpected Outlook

I really can't say cuz I'm only straight and wouldn't be talking to some guy like that but I lurked without being on them, and seen forums where (true or not) purportedly straight men say things like "I'm not gay but I want to suck another man's c___" or "have sex with another man" . Why are they doing it? I don't know. But there are no wives there to make a "show " for. And there are no "other" men to make a show for so all I can think is maybe some men do it just because its some extreme behaviour? Some of them even talk about how it would "get them off" if their wives/ girl friends watched adding "but it would neve happen, she would freak out/leave me". Mostly they sound like its some kind of "get off".