Join Date: Feb 2014
Location: Away and beyond in a hot place
Re: Hes asking for a hall pass with my cousin..
There is something totally wrong with this picture.
He has no right to be outraged at you having a physical thing with anyone when your were **** buddies, the whole point being that it's sex without strings attached, no committments, open relationship etc.
Now that you are in a committed relationship he does have a right to be angry about you lying to him. However, he seems to be mixing up the two.
Sleeping with your cousin to even the score for you having a physical thing with his friend is uncalled for and imo a very cruel thing to do.
Both of you sound very immature and insecure and I cannot see anything good coming from this relationship. i would suggest you exit from the relationship and find someone who doesn't just use you as a **** buddy and then justify wanting to sleep with someone else and cause you pain. he has no right to feel any pain about your physical relationship with his friend as you were not then in a committed relationship. It sounds to me as if he wants to control you and the situation and you are better off without him before you get sucked in much further.
Not wanting to judge but this is what happens when you have casual sex with someone who ultimately is using you.