07-15-2011, 07:24 AM
Join Date: Jul 2011
| | Re: We both drink to avoid...
Viviann... I've been a long time alcohol abuser too and working to get that part of my life fixed. It's the one part that's really screwed up. My wife stopped drinking months ago (she would have an occasional glass of wine ot two - not a big deal). She gave it up in hopes of helpng me. I've made progress but still have a ways to go.
I couldn't imagine trying to get my drinking under control if my partner wasn't and had no intention to stop. It sounds like you've come to terms with your issues and he has not done the same for his. Get out of the mess and get yourself together then you might be able to help him or end the whole thing in a clean state of mind. Good luck!