My husband quit smoking Pot back in November 2010. The weeks after were rough but at that time I understood his behavior. I knew that his body was going through the process of stopping something he did for YEARS.
Currently, he has been withdrawn, moody, and has distanced himself from me quite a bit. I am usually the one now that initiates sex. He has not shown me any affection at all...no hugs that he initiates, if I kiss him, it's a quick peck (basically just to get me off of him), he doesn't say I love you anymore and if I do, he barely can mumble, I love you too. I can't tell you how hurtful this all is.
I have been paranoid that he has started an EA but I have no proof that he is or isn't. I don't believe that he is having a PA though.
My question is, is his current behavior still due to him stopping the Pot? Or is it me? Does he no longer want to be with me?
Of note, he quit the Pot due to a possible job promotion. He found out last month that he did not get the position but there is still the opportunity in the future. For this reason, he has decided not to start the smoking again. Though he has admitted that he wants to.
He also hasn't hung out with his friends much lately since the majority of them do smoke. And obviously he is avoiding them as the temptation is too great when he is around them.
Anyways, any insight would be greatly appreciated.