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post #16 of 17 (permalink) Old 01-26-2016, 07:04 AM
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When DH and I first started out we were renting a small house in a so-so neighborhood. Our next door neighbor was a single mother who did phone and webcam work to support herself and her kids.

When we were in our townhouse, we had a neighbor that was a stripper.

Two of my dad's "bar buddies" were sisters who started up a maid service and were prostitutes on the side to make ends meet until the business grew enough enough to support them and still pay their employees and supplies costs.

After many conversations with those women, I learned that most of them can act equal to or better than anyone who ever graced stage and screen.

At best, these women feel pity for the guys who pay them for their attentions. At worst, they outright despise these "fools" and take pride in fleecing them whenever the chance arises.



Actually, it really depends.

Some services are mostly chat. Those services will use pictures and bios of real women, who they have paid a use fee to, but those aren't necessarily who a customer is chatting with.

Some services are interactive chat and video. Basically, the webcam girl does what her client asks her to do while the client watches. Those services are usually staffed by current or former porn actresses looking to make money, build a fan base, and hoping they'll become the next big thing.

If a person just wants to watch some porn, you're right. There's tons of free porn out there. What this man wants is to interact with women. For me, that changes everything. As far as I am concerned, the interaction crosses the line into infidelity territory.

And the money thing. That is a BIG DEAL for me.

First, the money is marital property. He's not just spending HIS money. He's spending his WIFES money, too.

Second, he allowed sensitive information to be compromised and could have dealt quite a blow to their financial security.

Third, I watched a friend of DH waste a chunk of his inheritance on a stripper because she was particularly good at her job and he thought she really liked him. We're talking over 10k in less than 6 months. This kind of foolishness or addiction or desperation, whatever it is, isn't something to be taken lightly. It can have long term consequences for the entire family if the spending isn't halted by someone with a clear head.

A good friend of mine runs a porn site.....everything about it is altered and fake. If she sat next to you on the couch you wouldn't recognize her.

She thinks the guys who pay her are idiots and losers.
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A good friend of mine runs a porn site.....everything about it is altered and fake. If she sat next to you on the couch you wouldn't recognize her.

She thinks the guys who pay her are idiots and losers.
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Heck, the live webcam girls are hardly recognizable once you remove the make-up, hairspray, and accessories.

What blew my neighbors mind was the market for used underwear. She was charging $60-$300 for a pair of panties she wore and then sealed in a bag to be shipped to her customer. If the customer wanted a picture of her in them or a video of her touching herself with them on, they'd be charged the higher end of the scale.

We had many a giggle over the pitiful fools who paid her for scented panties.
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