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post #16 of 78 (permalink) Old 09-08-2016, 04:12 PM
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I am with @Ynot. If the sex is good, keep her.


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It's over a pound per year, which seems like a hell of a lot to me. I haven't bought the stuff in 25 years or more, but I bet we're talking about a hell of a lot of money, too.

How do you feel about that being part of your life? I wouldn't, but maybe you're okay with it. Are you?
Im ok with the idea of it. There are somethings that bother me about it

1- She isn't really affectionate. That being said I may be biased as my X was overly so.

2- Is content with doing nothing all day, everyday. Never has an idea on what she would like to do.

3- Cant seem to handle normal everyday pressures. This is the most alarming.

Shes a good girl, is very good to me. Looks out for me. Is very trustworthy. Sex is GREAT. Shes a 10 if not higher (no pun intended). Is extremely honest, and loves my dog.

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Any advice you can give? She smokes prob a 1/2 oz of weed every 10 days.

I smoke too but maybe a joint or 2 a week.
1/4 a week sure isnt much....

Why would you call it an addition....a joint or 2 a week...is that an addiction?
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Im ok with the idea of it. There are somethings that bother me about it

1- She isn't really affectionate. That being said I may be biased as my X was overly so.

2- Is content with doing nothing all day, everyday. Never has an idea on what she would like to do.

3- Cant seem to handle normal everyday pressures. This is the most alarming.

Shes a good girl, is very good to me. Looks out for me. Is very trustworthy. Sex is GREAT. Shes a 10 if not higher (no pun intended). Is extremely honest, and loves my dog.
If she is high all the time that's going to zap any ambition to go out and experience life. She could be very entertained putting her favorite playlist on the stereo and staring at the ceiling fan.

Weed tends to relax and give a sense of euphoria. But any pressure or conflict will seem very amplified and she will avoid it.

Does she support herself? Or is the expectation she moves in with you and you support her and her weed habit in exchange for sex? If it's the latter, you know what that sounds like right?
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1- She isn't really affectionate. That being said I may be biased as my X was overly so.

2- Is content with doing nothing all day, everyday. Never has an idea on what she would like to do.

3- Cant seem to handle normal everyday pressures. This is the most alarming.

Shes a good girl, is very good to me. Looks out for me. Is very trustworthy. Sex is GREAT. Shes a 10 if not higher (no pun intended). Is extremely honest, and loves my dog.
Sorry too many red flags for a long term relationship.

I'd be out after I had a few months of good sex with a 10+ hottie.

This woman is not marriage material by far.
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I am going to be mean.
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She is not in her right mind.

You do not seem to mind.

You do not care to mind.

Her mind is properly smoked.

Your mind is the same... only second-handily so.

Get outside of your poorly bound stupor and get a breath of fresh air, fresh hair.

Ditch the [when sober] Termagant with her weed....get a good babe with flowers in her hair.........not named Mary Jane.

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Im ok with the idea of it. There are somethings that bother me about it



1- She isn't really affectionate. That being said I may be biased as my X was overly so.



2- Is content with doing nothing all day, everyday. Never has an idea on what she would like to do.



3- Cant seem to handle normal everyday pressures. This is the most alarming.



Shes a good girl, is very good to me. Looks out for me. Is very trustworthy. Sex is GREAT. Shes a 10 if not higher (no pun intended). Is extremely honest, and loves my dog.


You are just dating.

Have fun. Have sex.

Don't support her. Don't move in with her.

Don't get her pregnant.

Come back here when she cheats on you or you find out she is pregnant.


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She is not breaking this addictioan. I am not asking her too. I am asking:

1- Any tips on how to co-exists

2- Is a LTR possible in these conditions?
The answer to both of those questions depend on you.
1) is this something you can live with? As others have said if it interferes with the enjoyment of your life, then the answer is NO co-existence isn't possible.
2) see above

Some people build up a tolerance for weed just like some people build up a tolerance for alcohol. They can smoke or drink as much as they want and it doesn't affect their day to day life. BUT, and its a huge but, it starts to impact finances, activities etc, then it can become a huge issue. Only you can decide if that is tolerable or not. My suggestion is to talk to her about it. If you are thinking LTR, it would probably be best to establish some guidelines to go by. Otherwise enjoy the sex in the meantime!

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It's already bothering you. Drop her before she's carrying your stoned kid.

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It's such a NASTY habit. I personally would never date a girl that smoked that crap. She's smoking that much prob. because she's trying to hide from the reality of life.
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That wouldn't bother me if everything else was fine.

If it were alcohol or any other drug, or tobacco (retch), I would dump her; all those things are bad for you, whereas I can't find any actual evidence that weed is.

Maybe that's just because I grew up in the 60's, but that's how I would handle it.

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That wouldn't bother me if everything else was fine.

If it were alcohol or any other drug, or tobacco (retch), I would dump her; all those things are bad for you, whereas I can't find any actual evidence that weed is.

Maybe that's just because I grew up in the 60's, but that's how I would handle it.
Any form of Smoke going into your lungs is going to cause you harm/death. Our lungs are designed to process oxygen and not smoke.
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Any form of Smoke going into your lungs is going to cause you harm/death. Our lungs are designed to process oxygen and not smoke.
Nope. Pot smoking does not harm the lungs: Smoking Weed Doesn't Harm Lungs If It's A Joint A Day, Even After 20 Years

I agree that this is counter-intuitive because smoke obviously isn't good for the lungs, which means that there must be other benefits of weed that offset those negative effects.

However, it still seems that vaping would be preferable because that doesn't produce particulates.

(Note: not a doctor, don't play one on the internet, do your own research, etc.)

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Nope. Pot smoking does not harm the lungs: Smoking Weed Doesn't Harm Lungs If It's A Joint A Day, Even After 20 Years

I agree that this is counter-intuitive because smoke obviously isn't good for the lungs, which means that there must be other benefits of weed that offset those negative effects.

However, it still seems that vaping would be preferable because that doesn't produce particulates.

(Note: not a doctor, don't play one on the internet, do your own research, etc.)

^^This^^

I vape and use edibles for migraines and for fun. Smoking a joint is much different than a cigarette on the impact on your lung health as the article states. You can feel the difference if you've actually smoked both.
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Nope. Pot smoking does not harm the lungs: Smoking Weed Doesn't Harm Lungs If It's A Joint A Day, Even After 20 Years

I agree that this is counter-intuitive because smoke obviously isn't good for the lungs, which means that there must be other benefits of weed that offset those negative effects.

However, it still seems that vaping would be preferable because that doesn't produce particulates.

(Note: not a doctor, don't play one on the internet, do your own research, etc.)
vaping does cause lung damage - just different damage that tar and hot smoke and other nasty chemicals
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