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post #31 of 34 (permalink) Old 02-23-2017, 05:10 PM
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Re: one-sided emotional affair

Oh, hell no.
At first, I thought he was going to be "guilty" of complaining/venting about you to someone else. That's not OK in theory, but it's something I could deal with. We all need someone to confide in. I get it. Then I thought it was going to be about him wanting her and her not reciprocating. I don't know why this dynamic bothers me more than if she were reciprocating. Maybe it's because he looks like a total loser? Like he couldn't cheat even if he wanted to because he ain't all that. Something very pathetic about their relationship. I mean, this girl isn't into you and you're into her... Get a life.
THe things he said about you,t hough... NO. Just no. No one deserves to be the one setteled for. THe one tolerated because they got pregnant.
I'd get the hell out of there.
I'd take my time, get my ducks in a row, but my pride would not allow me to stay. NO way in hell could i raise a child under the premise I wasn't wanted byu my husband. THat he just stuck with me because I got pregnant. NO. Love yourself more than that. It's not even about him anymore. It's all about you.
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Re: one-sided emotional affair

thanks all.
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Re: one-sided emotional affair

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thanks all.
Dear Enuma!

The gang at TAM have Enuma-rated all the reasons for you [not to] put up with his deceit, his [drivel spit] B.S., Gaslighting and..........."Honey I only love You", smoke.

He wants two women in his life. You to manage the household duties and the OW to manage his ego stroking, his shaft maintenance management docket. Docket it to her.

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.
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