Re: Thinking of leaving
It sounds like my situation in reverse, my husband would be the guy on the other end with your wife, met women in FB games and then exchanged emails, pictures, videos, web camming etc. I only found out recently, he has stopped though and seems to realise how much it has wounded me but I feel so much for you if your wife is still doing it. You have to put yourself first, how about some ground rules that are non-negotiable and if she won't go for them then it doesn't seem as if she's willing to change until she looses you, sometimes people need a real big shock before they realise what's going on. If she isn't willing you need to ask yourself if you are happy in a relationship like that? Can you see yourself there in a years time or even 5 years time being happy? I too will find it very hard financially if we split up but the other day I had a really positive moment of clarity about options and what would be possible and how it wouldn't be so bad. It could even open up new opportunities, things you always wanted to do but couldn't because of considering someone else. You too may get that in time and it really helps to make you feel more in control of your own life. I wish you all the best.