Excuse for cheating?
My H and I have started counseling. Was going to be MC, but after first visit, therapist wanted to see us separate a few times. Now he said the MC wouldn't be for a while.
He says I have PTSD, clinical depression, abandonment issues and anger issues ( I hold it all in, afraid if I show anger, that person will leave me)... and I'm codependent.He is wanting to do EMDR therapy and having me work with the 12 steps of adult children of alcoholics.
My H is the one who cheated, yet so far the only thing he says is wrong with him is brain chemicals... says he has adult ADD . Is this supposed to be the "reason" he cheated? That he cannot control himself? He has not even started on any medication for it or in any way tried to treat it.
And now H thinks because he has went to 2 sessions that we are supposed to be "back together" while we work on our issues. This just confuses me more. I am not sure I can believe that ADD would give "reason" for his EA's, and that he doesn't have to take "self" responsibility for them?