06-03-2012, 03:26 PM
Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: South Chgo Burbs
| | Re: Wife drinks too much.Addiction or it's just me?
Ive dealt with similar for the last 3 yrs.
In the beginning she hid it so well, I thiught she had a medical issue (occasional has TSAs) but I found out it was vodka. I ran the gamut from yelling, puring it out, compromising, (she has anxiety and tried having her use it to calm her nerves until she got xanax prescribed. But then all she did was mix that with xanax.
Cops have been called numrous times to my home, they know shes a drunk. Shes had 2 seizures from ixing that with some sort of medication..etc.
She has now stopped the hard booze but drinks beer all day long..and doesnt even get drunk! BUt its too late...the damage is done to our relationship and she knows it. Im staying til she can get a job and she has a timeline. My job downsized and now the house is gona be shortsaled...anyway...Im out as soon as possible. Im just a social drinker and can tale it or leave it but Im tired, the love is gone (tho caring remains) and now I just wanna be a happy bachelor again.