Juan

I love my wife. She is the best thing that has happened to me and I don't see myself with another person for the rest of my life. She is just incredible. I was addicted to porn a couple of years ago and i thought i was past that phase of my life but last night i failed to control myself and once again I destroyed all the trust that she had in me. I think she wants to give up on me and i'm scared because i do not want to loose her. I lover her and the last thing i want her to think is that she is not good enough for me. I realized now that this addiction can reappear and i don't want it in my life again. I'm seeking help and counseling but my wife seems not to be very motivated to help me again. She is very frustrated and I understand her, i don't blame her. I am ashamed, frustrated and angry with myself for having failed her again. I want to do everything i can so this doesn't happen again and I certainly don't want to end my marriage, but I thing she is giving up on me. I have never seen her so frustrated with me and I'm scared to death of loosing her.

Help

jenniferswe

Have her go to counseling with you if you can. This way she will know you are getting help.

lamaga

Honestly, Juan, I don't see that one incidence of a man looking at porn is a marriage-breaking event, but I also don't know the details of your addiction.

I wish you well.

iheartlife

When you say you were addicted to porn, what do you mean?

How many hours a day did you look at porn when you were addicted?

Is your current counselor trained in porn addiction?

And out of curiosity, do you surf the Internet a lot for fun (not porn related, just in general)?

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