You should talk a lot. It is important for him to reflect about his actions and know the reasons why he is attracted to pornography.
Please, understand, that this is not about you! Those ladies he is watching are not what it seems. I mean, they turn him on, but there is something else, deeper, that pushing him into such actions.
Talk, talk, talk...
It's been way too long since the last post to this thread, but I'm new and have been checking out the site when I came across this thread. Ignis has a strong point - when there is an obsession
with porn in whatever form, a deeper reason exists. It's time to hash things out.
Not to sound mean, but Betrayed has had a taste of how smaller breasted women feel when their guys always look at well, all big breasted women.
While a lot of people are justifying the behavior and saying that, well, this is just what guys do, I'm going to say that there's a limit to everything. It's okay to obsess with giant tits and check out porn sites once in a while, but when it gets to the point that your partner is uncomfortable or unhappy with it, then you have a problem and potentially your relationship is on the line. If you're single - knock yourself out on internet porn sites or whatever, but being married means that both sides might have to make sacrifices for the sake of something greater.
It's easy to brush off someone's concerns with a simple, "that's the way it is," but if there's something deeper or more complicated within their relationship that we don't know about, then we don't have the right to take it so lightly.
Maybe it's as simple as Betrayed (and many women like her) having to come to terms with the fact that her husband likes to look at giant tits. Hand-in-hand, her husband might need to tone down the ogling of the porn sites and start paying more attention to what his in-the-flesh, loving wife has to offer him -contact with *gasp* real boobs.
I'm sure there are guys out there whose egos would be mighty bruised if their significant other was obsessing with huge dongs on hundreds of websites, especially if their package is smaller in comparison. They might be wondering why she's so interested, and worrying if they've got what it takes to please her. Some guys won't give a damn, as long as they can still get some at the end of the day. Man or woman, it can go both ways.