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Relationships and Addiction Whether it's drugs, alcohol, gambling, sex, pornography, or anything else, addictions can be detrimental to the health of a relationship.

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Old 11-25-2009, 11:42 AM   #1 (permalink)
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my husband works away 2 weeks every month , i find this so hard to deal with .. i dont want to be unfaithful to him but i find not having sex each day really hard to cope with . how do you cope when your partner is away so much ?
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Old 11-25-2009, 12:10 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Old 11-25-2009, 12:26 PM   #3 (permalink)
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have some and yes i do enjoy not quite the same though miss the excitment
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Old 11-25-2009, 12:54 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Well i honestly don't know what to tell you...there isn't much else you can do. Phone sex?
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Old 11-25-2009, 01:34 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Since you two don't have kids and you are not employed currently, can you go with him on these trips? At least some of the time?
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Old 11-25-2009, 02:10 PM   #6 (permalink)
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I do go with him lots of times , i do have a step son who is staying so its not always possible to go with him . I have started to help out at a local hospice , i just miss being intimate
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Old 11-25-2009, 02:32 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Wow, Europe really is lost if waiting two weeks for sex while your spouse is gone working has become an unbearable hardship. How about this KJ, remember that while he is gone working, he is gone working for you. See it as a gift he has given you, so you have the opportunity to stay home with your step son, and the ability to donate your time to local charities. Change your perspective KJ. Try looking at what you have gained rather than what you have lost. LIL
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Old 11-25-2009, 02:34 PM   #8 (permalink)
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I'm afraid in this case, you just have to deal with it. If he is gone for two weeks out of each month, he is dealing with it the same as you. Its not like he is cutting you off to be mean or something. He's doing what he has to do to support you. Marriage means that sometimes, you have to miss something (such as intimacy) when life gets in the way. Why not try to do something to better yourself while he is away and make the most of the welcome home when he gets back??
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Old 11-25-2009, 02:51 PM   #9 (permalink)
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thanks for letting me see it from his point of view feel really selfish now , guess i just miss him .
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Old 11-25-2009, 03:46 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Maybe something like this wold be useful?

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Old 11-26-2009, 10:10 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Michzz ive been out and purchased !! thanks
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Old 11-26-2009, 11:04 AM   #12 (permalink)
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Better not click on the link because I'm at work but even the description sounds well cool !!!!!
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Hang in there honey, he will be home soon and when he is he will be all yours!! Try hot steamy phone sex and picture mail while apart.
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Old 12-18-2009, 03:37 AM   #14 (permalink)
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found out he was sleeping with his P.A kinda kills this thread !!!
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Geeez join my club, sorry sweetheart.
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