04-29-2008, 12:38 AM
Join Date: Mar 2008
| | Re: How to stop the unreal closeness ?
honey how old are you may I ask? I see you are very religous, which i respect.
But I am from the "club" you need to Explore life before it is to late. Love works in various ways, what are you really afraid of?
What does it matter if he is Christian or not? I married my wife who is a red head, but I grew up hating redheads, but we "connected" Love is much to powerful to let trivial things get in the way.
My wife's Mother is Catholic, her father was a Protestant, If you know anything about Irish history and the Enlgish and catholics, well then you will know...they are not very fond of each other. But never the less they got married, had four daughters, they kept their own religions, the kids were raised catholic under the mother's religion.
Anyway, how do you know if this man is the right one for you unless you do kiss him and explore a little bit? I am not talking sex here, You will have sex when you are ready, that is a very personal decision and something that should at least wait until you are 18, in my book.
Only you know your feelings, as with the money, I would not loan him any more unless you know you will get it back, see if he pays back the gas money.
You sound like a very nice person, best of luck.