04-26-2010, 09:56 AM
Join Date: Jul 2008
| | Re: Change Church??? Please Help!!
Originally Posted by JuneBaby
..so why would she do that?? Why wouldn't she go to another church? I'm so frustrated. My husband thinks i'm crazy. Please...any advice will help.
maybe she's not over him...or maybe it has nothing to do with him and she's completely over him. who knows. but i dont think she's intentionally trying to make your life difficult. she's just doing what she feels is best for her; unfortunately that ends up being what is the worst for you.
If you arent going to leave the church then you only have two options: stay angry, bitter, and vengeful or try to find a new perspective that heals your fury. that is really your only option if you stay. If you stay angry you will turn into someone you dont like, and other people wont like, and you'll want to change your perspective. so just give yourself some time to adjust.
"I'm a lover of what is, not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality."
- Bryon Katie