I read your post 2ntnuf......if those things were done TO YOU unbeknownst to you....WOW... that is one story that could make a twisted Hollywood film...and a lesson to be very very careful the sort of people we get entangled with... even a wayward family member can destruct a life - if boundaries are not carefully put to keep them & their rift raft friends out..
You talk about X2 as though she was the light of your life upon meeting...you loved her so much.... but sounds she really got messed up or had one heck of a Mid life crisis during Peri years..that led to so much of what might have taken place here (avoiding giving those details to protect your identity) as I would have deleted that rather quickly myself!@#$%^
Almost sounds like a Conspiracy was done against you
....and even if 50% of that is NOT true, none of those people you spoken of.... given what you have shared -deserved to be TRUSTED.
.. so will you have the answers...this proof... I say NOT...
I would ask you this.. what is your Parents, siblings, relatives HEALTH LIKE ? .. this is no proof of course..... but if every genetic relative you come from has no one health issue as you describe coming upon you..it surely seems MORE suspicious
to say the least. Now if others have pancreas & liver issues as early as their 50's, even 60's... there could be a genetic link.
Sounds you had full transparency with her
at one point, how she was able to share with a family member your password -this in the wrong hands....could destroy someone's character... masquerading as YOU.. ...... Very very Low, dam*ing in fact.... if this was engaged in. Even if this person didn't like you, there is no excuse to further Dirt someone like that.
I do believe such awful things can HAPPEN to people, it's not only in the movies...
We know of a person ...she used to be a friend of ours, husband never cared for her too much... one of the more WILD ones, but I've known her like forever....I don't know how she did this, but so we've heard she got into another friends email account also a BF she was mad at...(he let her stay at his house)....causing a lot of trouble for these people.....(not to the degree of your story) but just such a low down thing to do.
When she was at our house, I was diligent to NEVER share too much personal info with her, due to her character flaws....She ended up getting
at me over something that others felt was totally stupid...fixing up a guy friend she had a crush on who wasn't interested in her - with another friend... she felt I betrayed her .....didn't work out anyway... but her hate for me remained.... That's Ok.....Maybe I am even thankful in some ways.
As it always worried me the things she did to others when she gets angry...I think I have been lucky, the most she has done to screw with me is talk behind my back..
This I can live with... for those who know us both...well.. they just know, often telling me what she has said.. I found it even amusing.. in the scheme of life, it didn't hurt me.. but the things YOU are discussing... Oh my...
How do you forgive a meditated Betrayal LIKE THAT ?? I don't even know!