10-19-2010, 05:47 AM
Join Date: Oct 2010
| | Betrayed
Last year I discovered my wife is separating, the night before, since she had already packed the clothes of our eldest (of 3).
I was sooooo shocked! Told myself...just breathe!!
Since then I've started to uncover a web of lies and deceit...perhaps only the tip of the iceberg to-date. She went around for years telling her family, friends from church etc. all kinds of stories about our marriage...that I was controlling, manipulative, and even abusive! She is definitely an attention / sympathy seeker! Seems she felt it necessary to be justified in others' eyes for leaving.
Only recently have I come to realize that for 15 years almost I was married to a sociopath.
I am very hurt, trying to process it all...we are now divorced. Meanwhile she launched into another relationship, having a guy she hardly knows sleep over - with our kids around. They are 12, 10 & 7 and really disgusted at it.