Re: Alone in love
Adding the conundrum of "why did God do this to me" is nothing more than self-induced wounds. God didn't do it, it's called life, it's random, and there are BILLIONS of people in this world. This one guy does not possess the sole key to your heart and happiness. Tell him how you feel, who knows, but in your own mind, you have to dial this back, you can't make it, "if I'm not his soul mate, too, I'll die," or something. Like FormerSelf said, if you're only liking this guy because you think it's your fated soul mate, then you might as well see how he feels. Otherwise, it's on you to just deal with the situation as is, which is to say, his going away.