Re: My husband is demanding I leave my church..
As others have said, you have to where you can have the best relationship with Jesus. I had a similar problem. I grew up Catholic & spent over 40 years in the church, but the older I got, the more bored I became. Reading the same things every week etc. My wife left for a non demoninational Christian church, so we attended different churches for a few years. Then, because I missed attending together, I started going to both. I learned so much in her church and became very involved, I eventually left the Catholic church. My parents weren't happy, but I finally convinced them, you're either Christian or you're not, the building has no relevance.
A lot of Catholic "rules" are self made up anyway, don't get me started on that one.