Join Date: Dec 2012
Location: someplace where there is way to much snow!
Re: My husband has recently become religious and I'm sooo not
Been a while since Ive been on but saw this post come up in my email and just had to check it out..
My first thought was "did you talk to him about your issues"
But after thinking about it and reading the response you have here (many of them very good), I just would like to add on simple but true thing. No matter what relationship your in or will get in..... people don't stay the same.... they develop new interest.. they get sick... they change their likes and dislikes. they get old... They get hurt....
What is your commitment level? If you don't have a high commitment standard, be truthful and let him know this may be a deal breaker for you as well as anything else that comes up that "you" aren't sure you can live with.
I'm not meaning that as sarcastic as it sounds, sorry.. I think there are and should be some things that you say "no" that's not going to be acceptable behavior from you... but in a partnership there are more things that although you don't believe or may think the same on them (politics, religion etc..) you not only accept but participate if you can, that's called love, commitment, caring.....Look to see what it can add to your life or take away and make a decision that way....
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