Re: Newly Wed Problems
Have you considered that due to his upbringing, he might get more abusive. I highly doubt that someone whom comes from that environment leaves unscathed. I am also guessing that he has not seen a therapist to work on his issues, because his issues are a barrier between the two of you. He does not know how to operate in a healthy relationship, and falls back on what he learned as a child. You should take this into consideration too. The longer he does not work on his issues, the more ingrained the behavior will be.
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