Re: Pagan/Wiccan/Occult Relationships
I've been a practicing neo-Pagan for about 10 years. There are very few people in my real life who are aware of it, and I regard my spiritual practices as something deeply personal and private.
When dating I look for people who describe themselves as "spiritual but not religious" (or some version thereof) and I describe myself similarly. I don't really care what kind of spiritual they are, or actually, if they're agnostic or atheist. What would make me incompatible with a person is their being very devoutly anything. I steer clear of guys who mention their devotion to God or their worship habits in their online profiles or on first dates. I don't object to those things at all, but I wouldn't be compatible with someone who wanted/needed me to participate in their worship with them. I also "next" anyone who is openly intolerant of others' beliefs. I don't want to convert anyone, won't put up with anyone who wants to convert me, but also wouldn't be comfortable with anyone who felt the need to let me know they consider people with faith (of any type, or of a type not their own) to be misguided/wrong/sinners/idiots.