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post #16 of 18 (permalink) Old 04-29-2015, 06:45 PM Thread Starter
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Thanks all for your responses. Some I agree with and some I disagree with. I am expressing worry about something that is not necessarily causing a negative effect on our marriage but remains to be a slight concern for me. I don't think my husband is an athiest and is simply being cordial about it. I certainly do not believe I am being judgmental. I was actually concerned for my husband's inability to remain centered without turning to substances such as alcohol or weed. Recreational use if cool as long as it does not become an abusive habit. This may be opening another can of worms but just as some use meditation to remain centered, I ultimately want my husband to have a positive alternative to coping with daily stresses. For me, I pray and lean on my faith to keep me grounded, as I previously mentioned in my initial post. For him, when asked, he responded that he relies on himself. I just felt that was shaky ground to stand on because I next asked, what if you don't know what to do, then what? He then said he always knows what to do but at that point I felt he was just being a smart-ass. But I will continue to do what I know works for me and be patient as some of you mentioned as he finds his own way. Who knows, maybe I'll rub off. Maybe he'll find some alternative way to cope with stressful events. But let me just make clear, I definitely knew who I was marrying and love him as he is. I just want the best for him as his wife and I know how much of a better woman I am because of my belief and values grounded in God.

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Originally Posted by gouge_away View Post
God can deal with your husbands anger. Keep praying for the Lord to love on him and soften his heart.

Lord, thank you for putting this woman into this man's life. Continue to guide her in your ways so that she can be the spiritual mentor this man so desperately needs. Reflect your love and grace, so that he can see your forgiveness and compassion through the wife he cherishes.
Heavenly Father, surround this man with a hedge of correction and discernment when she isn't available.

And if it is your will father, break him down to pieces, shatter his soul, and build him back up on your foundation.
Thank you for reading our prayer, and answering the prayers for so many of us lost souls to return home.

I just wanted to say that that was a really beautiful prayer that you prayed for the OP.
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Re: My husband is mad at God.

Originally Posted by gouge_away View Post
God can deal with your husbands anger. Keep praying for the Lord to love on him and soften his heart.
Sometimes you can do this for years and see your own life blessed in other ways, but not your marriage and/or husband. It remains broken and unhealed with a hardened heart, while your own strength is resolved. "Sometimes God calms the storm, other times he lets the storm rage and calms his child."
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