Re: Christian contemplating divorce
From what you have written, I doubt that it can be fixed. There seems to be a lot of resentment and it is true that how we are treated outside of the bedroom determines how it goes in the bedroom. Like you I also cannot separate my emotions just like that. My soon to be ex-husband called me a ton of names but I came to realise that I am not any of the things he said, he only knows how to hurt me, maybe your husband is the same. I know people that have divorced for reasons other than adultery, Christians included. Remember God is forgiving and sometimes we can just say you know what 'I really can't take this anymore'. All the best with everything.
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock - anonymous
When your are EX says "you will never find anyone like me" reply with, "THAT'S THE POINT"