I seriously doubt that God gave her the go-ahead with her 'soul mate'. For her to even mention God in this context is disgusting. It seems she knows very little about religion. Have you looked at the traits of an INFJ? Her actions and words do not measure up. She is in the selfish, mememe stage of an affair. Shut her down. 180 and talk only about kids & finances.
Last I heard god said don't be coveting neighbor's wives. Apparently, she thinks god made an exception for her. News flash OP, your wife's not an INFJ she's just another selfish POS.
She has NO RESPECT for you. She thinks you're a needy spineless doormat. You've been trying to "win" her back for the last two months. She should be trying to win YOU back.
Step one. Get your mind right. Google "the 180". Read "Married man sex life primer" and "No more Mr. Nice guy"... Do the OPPOSITE of what your heart says. You want to text her? DON'T... You want to beg her to work things out? SHUT UP... You want to save this marriage? FILE FOR DIVORCE
Step two. Get your physical right. Stop the worthless cardio running nonsense. Hit the gym 3-4 times a week HARD lifting heavy weights. Groom yourself and dress nice even indoors. Start getting out of the house A LOT. Chat up random woman, draw interest from those around you. Get your swagger back.
Any of this sound familiar OP: Leave early for work or comes home late, out late at night with the girls, doesn't answer phone, new sexy underwear, shaving her junk frequently, no sexual interest in you, showers when she gets home, weird white stains in the laundry, defensive about her whereabouts, glued to her phone.
8 months and all you think they did was talk? Wise up bro.