Re: Separated and Waiting on husband or God?
I received a text last night. He was asking for the concert tickets we had purchased in October. I knew he would as he cannot let anything lie that is material oriented. Plus, I believe it serves as a "reason" to contact me.
I told him to call me when he had a chance. He did. I asked him "where is your head regarding the divorce?" He said "I am following through with it. I said "do you have all of the paperwork turned in?" He said "yes. I am just waiting on the court date." I told him that I was looking forward to the concert. He said "ok. I will figure something out.??" I expressed that I wanted ti done.
My intention, for the phone call, was to encourage the divorce. I've come to the point. When he asked for the tickets, it was more of the same. He is no where near redemption. Among everything else that's happened-this was it for me.
I contacted my BF, she asked "who was he going to take?" I don't know. But I still have his credit card and I thought, I wonder if anything reveal itself. It did.
I found out, through the automated service...that when we came back from our vacation (if you can call it that), he signed up for Match.com. Just a few days later-no surprise. He was still angry and acting a fool. I found charged for sushi and place we discovered that was in a close by town. This was at the beginning of January.
It further confirmed my decision.
Then, he texted after after the phone conversation. "Did I pay for the tickets. I think I gave you the card to get them." I didn't reply and then 30 minutes later, he says "I guess I did pay for them since you didn't answer!"
He is cut out. I texted him "Leave me alone. I don't have anything to say to you. Just leave me alone."
He then says, "I am sorry I upset you."
"Can I have Baileys (puppy) for a few days?" ( I had originally said he could take her for a few days as I didn't want him to visit.)
I am not responding to anything. He doesn't deserve my response. I just need to know the date of the divorce that's it. Even that is iffy.
By the way, he lied about turning all the paperwork. The county website says different. Perhaps he will now. So looking forward to disconnecting, on paper and in my heart, from a cruel, evil man.