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post #136 of 153 (permalink) Old 09-26-2016, 06:35 PM
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'Cuz its my fvcking thread ....
My question being why are you talking about assisted suicide rather than whether or not you'll get into Heaven if you off yourself?

Seems to me the original purpose of this thread was much more important but hey it's your life.

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I have a 6.5mm Swedish Mauser rifle with a Mannlicher stock. Perfect for picking off porkers on the run...
Accurate as all get out, too.

Mannlichers are really nice.

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Accurate as all get out, too.

Mannlichers are really nice.
Love my 6.5x55.
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Love my 6.5x55.
Now that will seriously tenderize your pork!
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Actually it will just put a nice pretty, clean hole right through them and not damage any meat.
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I'm sorry to hear about your ailments. After loosing my mother, I can't help but think that life from here on after will not be very meaningful for me either.

Sorry about your loss of retirement. That is scary.

You sound depressed and with a good degree of reason. I am depressed as well. I want a big change, but most definitely not death...that would be a final and point of no return change.

I am free as a bird now and I want to live that way. I quit my job and didn't return to work at the end of this summer. I have 4 more years til early retirement, but I just don't want to wait anymore.

Do you own or do you rent?

I rented out my home and bought an RV. I am living in it full time. I park it in my back yard and pay my renter 1/4 of the electric and water bill to stay there. I also rented out my mother's house which I inherited after she died. I made a smaller house in the backyard of mom's house and rented that out too. All three homes got rented out in about 3 weeks that I put them up for rent!

I reported that as my rental income and I applied for Obamacare. I have insurance now and I don't pay an arm and a leg for it! I don't make much as rent in Texas is too darn cheap, but I owe nothing as I bought and paid for the small house and RV with my savings. I make less, but work nothing and am free to travel and take off wherever I very well please.

I feel happier now than I have in years! I can live with the moderate income I get and wait for the 4 years I need to get my early retirement.

Have you given the full time RVing life a look at? It's worth it, if you don't like living in the same darn place year after year.

I am getting ready to take flight as soon as I purchase the right type of vehicle to move my RV in. I also need to practice handling it on the road. I am no longer depressed and suicidal. I am optimistic about my future. I have to be careful what type of vehicle I purchase, as this will more than likely fully deplete my savings, but it is worth every penny to finally be barefoot and fancy free!

Just my two cents worth and some food for thought.

Good things come to those who wait...greater things come to those who get off their a$$ and do anything to make it happen.
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I rented out my home and bought an RV. I am living in it full time. I park it in my back yard and pay my renter 1/4 of the electric and water bill to stay there.


Lucky!!!
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I have been contemplating suicide for a year or so now. It's not something I want to do now, but I could see doing it when I'm about 60. I look at my future and it's a bleak outlook. I have been burned too many times in relationships so I do not see myself marrying or sharing a life with anyone again. I am done with women and dating....just done with it. But there are also other considerations that have been leading me towards this.

I lost my retirement when the market crashed in 2008. I have tried to build it back up but I just don't have the extra money. I pay for all my own medical insurance and I just cannot seem to get my retirement nest egg growing at the rate it needs to be. Day to day expenses for a single guy are high nowadays. I just don't see myself having any decent standard of living if I ever retire, which seems like less and less of a possibility.

I try to stay healthy and I excercise every day, but I am pretty sure I have onset arthritis. I am in pain every day with my feet and back. I wear orthotics but they don't help much. I have herniated disks, bad knees....I'm a mess skeleton wise. I am doing stretching every day, which helps a lot, but I cannot seem to get to where I feel any better. I've tried multivitamins, holistic foods, antioxidants...nothing seems to help. I see myself being pretty much stoved up completely by the time I'm 60.

My penis hasn't made an appearance in years. I see beautiful women everywhere and...nothing.

I've been examined for depression and the psychologist tells me I'm fine. I don't feel depressed...but I just don't have any high hopes for any kind of happy future or retirement. I see pain and loneliness in my future.

The only social activity I engage in is with my AA group, and hanging out with confused male alcoholics is not the most fulfilling way to spend evenings. They are good men, but my God they are messed up.

So I have been thinking about setting a term of limitation on my life. I don't really want to get old and have to have people take care of me. I have visited rest homes and...no way. Just no. I'm not spending my declining years wearing depends and eating lime jello.

I have been on a slew of Christian sites. Most say that suicide for born-again Christians like myself does not end up as a one way ticket to hell, but they do say it is a huge sin. I wonder what others here think. I know what the Catholics here will say, but I'd like perspectives from other mainstream Christains, Mormons and other religions.
You need to get laid man. Consider "contracting out" these services.

At this point, what difference does it make if you're not gonna live past 60?

Least it'll put a smile on your face and a hop in your step especially after reading this.......

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You need to get laid man. Consider "contracting out" these services.

At this point, what difference does it make if you're not gonna live past 60?

Least it'll put a smile on your face and a hop in your step especially after reading this.......
I'm betting the anti suicide crowd will also claim that this option will also bar you from heaven.
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Lucky!!!
Not really. I should of gotten rid of excess stuff and rented my home the minute my son left and I was an empty nester back in 2006! All that money on rent would have allowed me to be debt free much sooner. Oh well, live and learn.


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You need to get laid man. Consider "contracting out" these services.

At this point, what difference does it make if you're not gonna live past 60?

Least it'll put a smile on your face and a hop in your step especially after reading this.......
Actually I have a date set up for tomorrow morning: a breakfast date with a nice lady I've been working with on a project. Should be fun. I haven't been out with anyone for a while. Breakfast, then we go to the Houston Art Museum.
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Actually I have a date set up for tomorrow morning: a breakfast date with a nice lady I've been working with on a project. Should be fun. I haven't been out with anyone for a while. Breakfast, then we go to the Houston Art Museum.
It's about f****** time.

You have too much commitment, humor, and passion to be a hermit.

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It's about f****** time.

You have too much commitment, humor, and passion to be a hermit.
I will unleash the charm army tomorrow.
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I hope that you have a great time!

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I hope that you have a great time!
I did. She's a nice lady. It was nice to hang out with a lady again.
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