12-22-2011, 02:54 AM
Join Date: Dec 2011
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First of all greetings to all,
i am married for 10 years with mine wife, we have to kids 8/4, so what is mine problem i am very emotional man, trying to have a realy good marriage, but mine wife gets with year more more cold. She never kiss me, initiate sex, but i know she loves me and she speaks very nice about me with others, she is not cheating i am 100% sure.
Now what heart me at most, is this cold part. If i try to speak about how cold she is getting, she attacks me, and she attacks me really hard. later is she sorry but when u do it 10000 time in 3-4 days so it dont metter if she is sorry or not. Also last 4 month i was trying it very very hard to gets things better between us, but more i am trying i start to think she is getting colder.
The most what is conserning me, its not what if we brake up and divorce, we are not first with problems, but the way she ignore all and at one days i will get enough and change mine self, and in mine experiance this never goes well.
regarding sex hmmm, 4 times in month, if i am lucky, when we have sex its greate but for me it feels like , we have sex because she feels sorry for me
i know this sounds all stupid, and mine englisch is not so good, but is there anybody experiance same ????