02-09-2012, 08:18 PM
Join Date: Feb 2012
| | I Need Opinions (if you don't mind)
I believe I have found the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with. I'm 27 years old, we've been together for 2 years. He is the greatest man I've ever met.. he's honest, genuine and we click very well in all areas of our relationship. He's literally my rock. ... I would just like to get an opinion on one thing if someone wouldn't mind... In the very beginning of our relationship we talked about everything, including past relationships. He said he had been in love one time with his high school sweetheart and that the girl broke his heart and he was in a deep depression for awhile over it. They broke up when he was 18, which was about 3 or 4 years before I met him... Now, in the very beginning of our relationship, he kind of brought her up a lot. I sprayed his cologne on my shirt and he said, my ex used to do that. I told him I wanted to steal his sweatshirt and he said, oh my ex did that. He even showed me her house one night when we went for a joy ride. I know her siblings names. I know her parents names, etc. He told me 2 years ago that she had to be right next to him and that every move he made revolved around her.... Now presently he doesn't talk about her at all in any way really. I spend the night at his apartment every night and he has been talking a lot about our future together, including buying a house and potentially getting married down the road. I have no doubts about him, though the thought does cross my mind about his ex now and then because of how much he talked about her in the beginning of our relationship. Am I way overanalyzing things? Should I have any worries, or am I just coming up with something to worry abou because everything else is good? I would really really like some feedback if anyone has the time because I drive myself crazy and I hope it's for no reason. Thanks!