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post #46 of 93 (permalink) Old 12-19-2013, 04:47 PM
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Re: How kinky are Born-Agains??

The two purposes of sexual congress are to procreate and to bring together the flesh of a man and wife into one. Anything that helps in those purposes is valid and approved sex. When you are with your wife and you both like something that either draws you together or aids in producing children then it is good. So go forth and multiply, or at least practice multiplying.

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God created us to get jiggy wid it.
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I will do anything for DH and he loves it......all within the bounds of Scripture of course
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I am kinky as ever but my wife is not. However she is comforable with doing the main thing I like and even need.

However she is not comforable with oral, anal, toys, roleplay etc. but one has to respect that.
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Re: How kinky are Born-Agains??

There was a book out not too awfully long ago about Christian Marriage and Sex. I wish that I could remember what it was called. But within those bounds that were expounded upon in that book, God simply did not intend for us to be "prudes," but much rather, to be fruitful and multiply. And there is a semblance of order and a sense of decorum in which He wants it all done.

The largest of which is that we will not knowingly offer to offend our spouse nor should they ever offer to offend us, as love should be freely, lovingly, unselfishly and unfearfully given to each other.

If the spouses truly know, respect, and love each other and truly want to monogamously pleasure one another, then there should be absolutely no bounds within their sexual regimen, other than perhaps for inviting in third parties into the their monogamous, heartfelt, and loving relationship!

And I, for one, ain't exactly into that!

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Sex and the Supremacy of Christ by John Piper is an excellent book on all sexual topics. Especially good sections for married men and women. But it also has sections for singles.
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Sex and the Supremacy of Christ by John Piper is an excellent book on all sexual topics. Especially good sections for married men and women. But it also has sections for singles.
Damn, Sandy! That's the book! Thanks for reminding me!

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So what does the book say about kink as this is the subject of the forum?
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Well what does kink mean as what is kinky to you may be plain vanilla to me?

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Youv'e got me there. I suppose it is what is in one's mind. I suppose it means different or not the norm in the bedroom. Something you would want to keep really private between you because others might judge it differently or get the wrong idea because of associations they have read about which might not be the case at all.
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Exactly. *This* Christian couple is as kinky as they want to be. Anything we choose to do within the bounds of our marriage (just between her and I) is generally okay.

The question as asked, "how kinky are Born-Agains?" Well really, the answer is, as kinky as everyone else. And all that that implies. Now if the question were, "how kinky are Born-Agains allowed to be based upon the Bible?" That would open up a whole different dialog.

And from my point of view, that answer to that question is, anything that happens between a husband and wife, that doesn't bring third parties to the marriage, and is not perceived by either partner as harmful or demeaning, then it's completely okay. Have fun! Kink it up!
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Exactly. *This* Christian couple is as kinky as they want to be. Anything we choose to do within the bounds of our marriage (just between her and I) is generally okay.

The question as asked, "how kinky are Born-Agains?" Well really, the answer is, as kinky as everyone else. And all that that implies. Now if the question were, "how kinky are Born-Agains allowed to be based upon the Bible?" That would open up a whole different dialog.

And from my point of view, that answer to that question is, anything that happens between a husband and wife, that doesn't bring third parties to the marriage, and is not perceived by either partner as harmful or demeaning, then it's completely okay. Have fun! Kink it up!
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Wow thank you for that. That is very helpful. Thank you both.
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I am kinky as ever but my wife is not. However she is comforable with doing the main thing I like and even need.

However she is not comforable with oral, anal, toys, roleplay etc. but one has to respect that.
Is your wife open to reading books on marital sex from a Christian perspective? That is what changed me. Maybe, if she is open to it, the two of you could spend "devotion time" reading a chapter at a time drawing the two of you closer together. She may learn some new things and also gets to spend time with her Dh.
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