03-11-2010, 07:43 PM
Join Date: Mar 2010
| | Re: Help married and have feelings for ex
ooh honey! you must cut ties with your ex if you want to make it better for your marriage. Have you expressed to your husband that you don't feel appreciated? I know how you can feel that way, I have three kids and I also am a stay at home mom.
I don't know if this will work for you, but I tend to go back and reminisce about the days when my husband and I were dating and I go back and look at our wedding photos because it helps me remember.
Also my husband and I are intentional about dating each other, its good to get away together and just talk. My husband and I are not just lovers but each others best friend. We are very open with one another, no matter how mean it may sound, we express it when we're disgruntled.We get it out and then apologize if we have to.
another question too, have you lost respect for your husband? has he done things that make you admire him less? some of your needs are not being met, that's why you are being attracted to your ex.
You must talk to your husband about how you feel. If he thinks it a joke, then show him how you feel. If you are angry, let him see it,men don't see hints, they seen neon signs.
I really hope that you can't light the fire again in your marriage.Don't throw it away for a fling with your ex.
God bless you. I will pray for you.